The Parenting Pyramid

Have you ever been in this situation where you are trying to bring the Spirit in your home by doing the right things like reading the scriptures as a family, and during the actions of what you are suppose to do you find contention that takes away the very thing that you are trying to accomplish?  Sometimes, I think, why am I even trying?  As a parent I endure, and quickly remind myself of the rewards of preserving and enduring to the end.  I had the privilege of being trained to be a facilitator for a group called "The Arbinger Institute" a couple of years ago.  This institute teaches concepts taught in books they wrote called, "Leadership and Deception" and "Anatomy of Peace".  I strongly recommend these books.   I find myself using concepts learned in this training and books.  One that came to my  mind last night came from what is called the "Parenting Pyramid".  Do you as parent find yourself correcting over and over to a child and nothing seems to work?  Check out this 8 pg document and tell me what you think?
Parenting Pyramid
 I have to constantly remind myself to go deeper.  I think it takes a lot of effort to spend the time to help things go right, rather than trying to fix things that are wrong.  In the paper it talks about going down a layer in the pyramid to solve a problem that doesn't seem to be working in a layer higher.  One thing to note, you can always skip layers to the base of changing the way of being.